Coping with Criticism - Part 2

Continuing from yesterday, here are a couple of more ways to handle criticism:

Second, consider the source. Though you should take every criticism seriously, it is still wise to ask yourself: who is criticizing me? Is my critic a friend or foe, a mature believer or a hardened unbeliever, a highly critical individual, or perhaps a fringe member of the church? If your critic is someone known for wisdom, you should encourage his or her constructive evaluation.

Third, consider timing and prayer. The physical setting, timing, and situation out of which criticism comes may help you determine whether the criticism is helpful. As a general rule, don't respond to criticism for at least twenty-four hours to allow yourself time to pray, think, and get counsel.