Coping with Criticism - Part 3

The next two suggestions for coping with criticism have us consider a posture of humility:

Fourth, consider yourself: The Holy Spirit uses our critics to keep us from exalting ourselves. So let yourself be vulnerable. Don't be afraid to say, "I was wrong; will you forgive me?" Be grateful that you can learn valuable truths from your critics. Some of our best friends are those who disagree with us lovingly, openly, and intelligently. "Faithful are the wounds of a friend" (Prov. 27:6).

Fifth, consider the content. Ask yourself honestly: What are my critics saying that might help me improve myself? Is there a kernel of truth in this particular criticism that, if changes are made, will make me more godly? If critics say something constructive, absorb it, confess your fault, take the lead in self-criticism, ask for forgiveness wholeheartedly, make change for the better, and move on. If the critics offer nothing constructive, be kind and polite, and move on. Either way, move on - don't harbor internal bitterness. Fight God's battles, not your own, and you will discover that He will fight yours (Rom. 12:19).

Tomorrow, we'll look at the ways the Scripture and our relationship with Christ can help us get a right perspective on criticism.